From my blog on www.parentsociety.com:
I still remember my partner’s tentative steps around my children when
our relationship moved from a brief flirtation to becoming significant
in both our lives. Not wanting to have children of his own initially, he
suddenly found himself in relationship, complete with home ownership
and two children. Within a few years, we were joined by a dog. Then
another dog. Welcome to a modern version of the American family.
Dean assumed the role and function of a stepparent, whether he wanted
to admit it or not. Being with me meant that he had to be with my
children, since my former wife and I shared joint physical custody. With
feet dragging at times, always quick to clarify that any hard decisions
over the children’s lives were to be decided by the children’s mom and
me with no input from him, and quick to let me discipline them rather
than stepping in and doing that work, he reluctantly has become and is
now a significant parent figure in their lives as well.
Since he didn’t want to be “Uncle Dean” or “Dad 2” or “Pops,” the
children went through a long list of names of what to call him, almost
relegating him to being their “gay nanny,” a name said with
tongue-in-cheek. Finally, he has simply come to be called “Dean.” And
they love him with the affection shown to a parent, and he loves them as
if they were his own children.
Read more on: http://www.parentsociety.com/todays-family/same-sex-parents/same-sex-step-parent-vs-parent/
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